no longer double

it's over, it's done.

i took a gigantic step today.. for the better. for the both of us.

surprisingly and yet not very surprisingly, she took it well. in fact, she's been thinking about it too. *sigh of relief*

thing could have been so much worse. well, they say that you should retire when ure at the peak right? well, something to that effect i guess.

well... whatever it is... the result is...




MING WAI IS SINGLE AGAIN! SAND... Single, Available, NOT Desperate.





oh yeah, btw, my brother just celebrated his FOURTH ANNIVERSARY. goodness. congrats anyway bro. if u ever come to blog larh. haha...

past year has been good to me and her. but it's just not what we're for right now larh. so... cheers to us, and the thick and thin we've been through together.

thanks to all who supported us! tahz.

brewballs, screwballs, fishball?

today lepaked with more ppl... as if yesterday's outing at times square with kheng lam, elaine and ooi hoon wasnt enuf... today it was kheng lam, ooi hoon, and michelle, at mid valley. so, first stop: food! carl's jr. babes... and ooi hoon paid for all of us somemore. haha...

me and dongku, buddies for 6 years now.

the ladies... yes, 2 of them, thanx mich.

and then voila! out of no where we met dis guy. chee kian!

and dis guy... suang fu. and fiona, who happens to be my brother's girlfriend's sister's ex-classmate. whew! what a mouthful.

then onward to brewballs for entertainment! kheng lam posing.

ooi hoon posing... not bad, more yeng than kheng lam. xp

whoa! it's me bending over holding a stick, hitting some brightly coloured balls!

mmhm, even the girls agree it was a most yeng pose. haha...

me and my pool partner! i kalah in coolness to her leh.

guards... holding sticks. hmm....

kheng lam oso wana take pic between dem. how can? i oso want....

*click* kheng lam says, "wah ming wai u look very hiao leh..."

ok lorh... take a pic with 'good boy' pose. swt...

winners of both games we played...

'X' marks the spot. whoopsie...

So yeah, we basically had a whole day of pool... and a bit of foosball... ate lunch before that... den teman chee kian, suang fu, fiona and... erh... her friend (sorry i forgot ur name! u left early marh...) eat at pizza hut... den while d others went home, mich went off with her guy, and so left me and ooi hoon. guess what we did? yeahp. pool again. one on one dis time. not bad leh, she won me once. haha... she goin back to melaka soon dy. all d best yeah!! 3.74 aggregate out of a perfect score of 4.0. geng... very geng... i will kalah very badly...

tmr? well. whatever tomorrow brings i'll be there with open arms and... maybe not open eyes til about 12noon. heh.

masak masak and walk walk

so what did i first do after coming back from ns? why, hang out with my bestest buddies of coz! in fact, they threw me a welcome home party. sort of. haha... chef edwin tong in da house leh! his house la to be precise. we had 'masak masak'. hahaha.... and the guests were....

sabrina cheong, looking demure n sweet here

natalie the fish who was forced to eat her own kind...

darling vina who was... erh... *lost*

and of course mr.chef himself, mr. edwin tong!!

so we gathered at edwin's house, some arriving early (me, to go with edwin to market), some arriving soon after (nat and saby), and some... erh... one... who was early enuf to help out with cooking lunch which turned out to be dinner. haha...

cameras out!!

'reward' for coming 'early'... v8 vege juice. tasted like cold tomato soup. ergh.

sabrina is just so photogenic. dahlah cute.

vina emo-ing coz she was left alone in d living room. haha... baru bangun tido kot...

main course: sou fish!

yes, it stank...

our setting for dinner

the dishes (from top): mash potato, fish fillet, french beans, tomato fondue. along with fish eggs at top left and home made mayo at left. not forgetting our cocktail: ribena, lime juice, water, ice, and.... VODKA... ABSOLUT VODKA.... wheeeee.....

so it was a wonderful day at edwin's house. esp since we finished half a bottle of absolut vodka between d 4 of us (edwin didnt have coz he drove later)... so as d onli guy who drank i can report to u... alcohol has a funny effect on natalie and vina. they both were a lil TOO happy after. haha... saby d youngest oso like biasa onli. me? well.... buy me a drink and i'll show u. hehe...

it's good to be back with my buddies after so long. esp vina, whom i cudnt get to meet up with during my holiday back from ns... today met up with ooi hoon, elaine and kheng lam at times square. ooi hoon's back from melaka for holiday marh... so go lor go lor... quite fun oso lar. elaine keep spilling drinks. xp dangerous leh sit beside her in sushi king. and ooi hoon looks like damn yeng lidat. i oso call her dai ka jie... haha... her bowling better than mine somemore! and kheng lam... kheng lam... well. still kheng lam lar. with his mushrooms, spores, long hair, ..... long hair?? ohmigosh u gotta see his hair now. longer than ooi hoon's. haha...

tmr i'll be meeting up with all d mgs ppl and kheng lam agin at midvalley... wonder for how long, to do what, and why. who cares? i've got a month of free time. go go go!! haha...

it's good to be back. reli good to be back with my buddies who accept me for who i am and not who they want me to be. and they're educated, behaving ppl. unlike lots of stewpid ppl at camp.

program latihan khidmat neraka?

I'm back from Kelantan! After 3 months. Miss me? Haha... I bet some reading this would go... "Huh? Kelantan? 3 months? Why? He go for what?" well... anyways...

NS was a great experience. not onli did i meet new people and learn how to be a better person, i also learnt d feeling of being disliked by a huge group of malay guys. well erh. long story leh. i malas wana talk so much abt ns. i want dis to be a short post...

oh yeah. one thing worth mentioning. my 30 live bullets using m16 was wonderful. truly wonderful to be holding a live weapon that could end someone's life. a dark and dangerous power. amazing.

learnt how to play guitar. not bad! a little onli larh.

got closer to God. Hallelujah, Hosanna in the highest, amen.

learnt to deal with all sorts of people.

got hurt quite a lot, mostly in d last 2 weeks. those who were in camp with me would certainly know why. heartbreaking, soul shattering.

humbled myself. knowing that a tiny slip, a slight misjudgement in behaviour, and something beautiful is lost.. just slipped right out of my hand. just like that. saddening sia.

learnt how to say goodbye to those close to ur heart.

learnt how to go on day by day with camp food. d food was alright. it tasted fine. just dat it's almost d same everyday. rice. chicken. vege. fruit. gahh.

learnt how to shit squatting down. gross at first den got used to it. thinking abt it, it's more hygienic coz ure not sitting on a seat 20 other people could be using everyday.

learnt that i can do monkey bars and tarzan swing.

learnt how to sing some malay songs.

learnt what 3 months together can cultivate: not just friendship but brotherhood and... sisterhood? erm. u get wat i mean rite. my closest friends weren't just friends... they were my brothers and sisters. agous. eli. sham. hazeeq. arshad. carmen. jenny. goh chee. not forgetting raymee my best buddy. marcus. sai men. chee seng yeap. aliff. ong. fahmi. nad. sha. kah yan. chui ling. rajesh. sarves. orange juice. teera. ain. yee shin. sheu hui. vin nie. mei wei. hakim. ah huan. ah han. ah chong. ling jing. ah tak. zaiy. ida. winnie. n many many more.



gosh i miss being with u guys.

but it's good to be back here in kl. it's good to be back.

relief

hello and welcome to my blog!! the frequently updated with the juiciest gossip blog. haha... that is very very... "accurate".

anyways, as u all noe (i hope so... duh...) i've been living halfway across the world for the last 2 months in kelantan for my ns... and it's been quite a ride actually. so many things to say and so many stories but... right now i'm on holiday from ns, started on 8 may, thursday, until 13 may, today, tuesday. therefore... my time here is running out. i haf abt 3 hours more in civilisation before i.. i... return. to camp. oh yeah!! btw...

Kem PLKN Kisana Beach Resort,
P.O. Box 353, Pantai Tok Bali,
16500, Semerak, Pasir Puteh,
Kelantan

If any of u wana send letters to me, u can do so at the address above. i'll get mail abt once or twice a week lah. but erh.. keep in mind that i'll be back on the 7th of june, so u may not want to send mail (if u are) one week before that larh.

anyways... off i go again to kelantan. it's been a good 6 days of holidays. thursday went out with zmin, den met up with edwin n nat. at nite had a long long chat with ru downstairs near d guardhse... friday went out whole day with edwin, nat, and sabrina... saturday went out with kheng lam n suang fu n my bro, den went dinner with dad, granddad, aunt n aunt's family... sunday went lunch with mum, bro, edwin, n edwin's mum at the apartment, the curve for mothers' day... den monday (yesterday) went to skul, den went to meet up with zmin, sze jie, n sheryiin at central market, den hurried to midvalley to meet up with teera, carmen, agous, nas, she anne, charis, melissa, n agous' friend. den came home n had dinner with mom. n den slept til today. jus said bye bye to mom who was leaving for work n said bye bye to ru who was leaving for college.

whoa, she looks hot in her uniform sia.

anyways... i'll be leaving on an air asia flight in d afternoon, so... check back here in another 3 weeks yeah? i'll be back in no time, no worries...

gonna be missing somebody real bad even if i already saw her twice these 6 days. got improvement lar yesterday. but... after my ns finishes... some things haf gotta change... ^^


goodbye all!! God bless n may u all live life to its fullest!

bye darls. smile more yeah? tah tahz....